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Last Update: 10/1/2012, after the holy day of 2011 diwali, new awakening, new beginning, new hope, new love!
"Jaan hai to Jahan hai!" - (If Life is then World is! If alive then world exists!) - Sohrab Modi Sheesh Mahal Hindi Movie (1950)
"EKATVA (Solitary) BHAVANA (Desire): First find out: Who am I? I am lone universal traveler Atma (Soul). I am born alone. I am going to live alone. (Easier said than done) I am going to die alone. I like being alone. I enjoy being alone. No one must share my sorrow. (No one can) No one suppose to help me. (Life is made up by lot of loving people's help without which we would not have lived this life with so much happiness, pleasures)  I should not need anyone. (Almost impossible) I should not need any company. (Very difficult) Chanchalta (Impatient, Unsteady) & Malinata (Dirty, Polluted) are root cause of problems." Rakesh Jhaveri - Shrimad Rajchandra Mission - Dharampur
"Enjoy life as it is and as it comes. Things are worse for others. It is a lot better for us. Be thankful & stop complaining." Rakesh Jhaveri - Shrimad Rajchandra Mission - Dharampur
"What Is Forgiveness? It is The Wonderful Fragrance that a Flower Gives.... When it is Being Crushed!" (Nita Savla collection)
"Babumoshai, zindagi aur maut uparwale ke hath hai jahapana, jise na aap badal sakte hai na main… hum sab to rangmanch ki kathputliyaan hai, jiski dor uparwale ke haath bandhi hai. Kab kaun kaise uthega, koi nahi janta." Rajesh Khanna (DOD: July 18 2012)
"Nothing is impossible to a willing heart!"
"One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life. That word is Love!"
"The wise reason to forgive is to set yourself free of your past so that you can step into the opportunities of the present."
"All human's miseries derive from not being able to sit quiet in a room alone." Blaise Pascal
"Nature is painting for us day by day, God is creating beautiful women for us day by day, if we only have eyes to see them."
"Our language has wisely sensed the two sides of being alone. It has created the word "Loneliness" to express the PAIN of being alone. And it has created the word "Solitude" to express the GLORY of being ALONE!" Paul Tillich
"Na Dekhvu - Na Dajhvu! Out of Sight - Out of Mind!"
"Nothing will content those who are not content with a little. LESS IS MORE!"
"Do not let trifles disturb your tranquility of mind.... Life is short and too precious to be sacrificed for the nonessential and transient.... Ignore the inconsequential."
"Those who know the value and the exquisite taste of solitary freedom for one is only free when one is alone..." Isabelle
"What a lovely surprise to discover how un-lonely being alone can be!"
"Gentleness is everywhere in daily life, a sign that faith rules through ordinary things: Making Love, tending flowers, through music and books, Drinking beauty of Beautiful Girls, raising kids - all the places where the grace shines through." Garrison
"He who smiles rather than rages is always the stronger." Japanese Wisdom
"Our greatest experiences are our quietest moments!" Nietzsche
"Richness is NOT Earning, Spending or Saving More, Richness is, When You Need "NO MORE!" (Nita Savla collection)
"ANYATVA () BHAVANA (DESIRE): " Rakesh Jhaveri - Shrimad Rajchandra Mission - Dharampur
"You can't have everything. Where would you put it?" Ann Landers 1918
"One cannot collect all the beautiful shells on the beach. One can collect only a few, and they are more beautiful if they are few. Anne morrow Lindbergh (1906-2001) from "Gift from the Sea"
"Sukh dukh manma na aaniye, Ghat saathe ghadiya, Talya te koina nav tale, Raghunath na jadiya" Narsinha Mehta

"Do not bring happiness sorrow in mind, Engraved at birth time, no one can escape, God planted them!" Narsinha Mehta

Normally life long Relationship is nourished and maintained by true respectful hearts... but when Relationship dies, it never dies as NATURAL death -                                             Relationship is always murdered by:  Money Selfishness.…    Ego….    Attitude....    Misjudgment….                     No Compromise.... No Let Go….    No Need.... No Value….    No Respect....    Protecting Self-Esteem….

"Past is History, Future is Mystery, Present is only truth" Rakesh Jhaveri - Shrimad Rajchandra Mission - Dharampur
Brahmakumari Shivani (Electric Engineer - 37 years old on September 2010) Emotional Intelligence Part-3

1) Accept everything as it is

2) Let go

3) Let be

4) Be quiet

5) Speak slow

6) Speak sweet

7) Speak short

8) Happiness is our property governed by self inner control

9) Share knowledge, skill

10) Observe Silence - listen to inside wisdom intuition

In Life....

In life there are people that will hurt us and cause us pain,
but we must learn to forgive and forget and not hold grudges.
In life there are mistakes we will make,
but we must learn from our wrongs and grow from them.


In life there are regrets we will have to live with,
but we must learn to leave the past behind and realize it is something we can't change.
In life there are people we will loose forever and can't have back,
but we must learn to let go & move on.


In life there are going to be obstacles that will cause interference,
but we must learn to overcome these challenges and grow stronger.
 

In life there are fears that will hold us back from what we want,
but we must learn to fight them with the courage from within.
 

God holds our lives in his hands. He holds the key to our future.
Only he knows our fate.
God see's everything and knows everything.
 

Everything in life really does happen for a reason: "God's Reason".

By: Angie Flores

"Life is short. Time is passing. Realize the self. Purity of the heart is the gateway to God." Swami Sivananda
                                               
"Some people have thousands of reason why they cannot do what they want to, when all they need is one reason why they can!" Willis Whitney
 
"Pahelu sukh te jaate narya. (First pleasure is self well.)"
"Jagya tyar thi sawar. Morning begins when awakened."
        
"Dhiraj na fal mitha. (Patience bears sweet rewards.) Utavale aamba na paake. (Mango does not ripe in hurry.)"
"Sachchai ni jeetaj thaay. (Truth always wins. Truth prevails.)"
       
"Na bolya maa nav guna. (Silence has nine virtues.)"
"Saman sau baras ka aur pal ki khabar nahi!" "No one knows what is going to happen in next moment, yet human remains occupy collecting stuff thinking that would last for ages!"
 
"Strike while it is hot."
"When the Lord closes a door, somewhere else Lord opens a window." The Sound of Music - Movie
  
"Har dukh aanewali sukhaki chitthi hoti hai aur har nukashan honewale fayade ka ishara." Chandramukhi - Devdas         ("Every sorrow is messenger for upcoming happiness and every loss is sign for upcoming profit." Madhuri Dixit)
"The root cause of every disease is ego! I Had a lot of money and now I am poor becomes the question of prestige. How am I going to face the people? Social ego is hurt. The fear is attached to this ego. Human is suffering inside with fear. Automatically everything will be cured by throwing away ego, not listening or surrendering to ego. Human need not be afraid of fear but need to feel free at the top of mind temple."
"Strength does not come from physical capacity, it comes from strong will."
                                
"Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend."
   
"You cannot live a positive life with negative mind!" Hinal Savla inspired FB
                    
"It is the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting. Protect your dreams for they will carry you beyond all obstacles." "Dreams should never die. When the dreams are dead, you are dead." - the actor Dev Anand (Died in London 2011)
""Single" is not a status. It is a word that best describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoys the life without depending on others."
"Who depends on God is free of fear, worry, sorrow! Why worry unnecessarily? Whom are you afraid of unnecessarily? Who can kill you? Soul neither has birth nor death!"
"Change is law of universe. What you think is death, is life itself. In one second you become millionaire and in next second you become poor. Mine-Yours, small-big, get rid of from mind. Then everything is yours. You are everyone's."
"If you hate being single and feel lonely, then that means you hate your own company. If you hate your own company the chances are that you don’t make great company. This is the most crucial time for you to learn to love yourself. When you start to radiate self-love, you will become very attractive to others, your confidence and self-esteem will be greatly improved in the long run." ~ Themis Eagleso
"Fri(END), Boyfri(END), Girlfri(END), Bestfri(END). Everything has an END except...Fam(ILY)! It Has 3 Letters that says I LOVE YOU."
"Avoid negative people, for they are the greatest destroyers of self confidence and self-esteem. Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you!"
"People come into your life for a reason; the negative people usually are there to teach you what you don't want to become, treat you how you don't want to be treated, and to show you what you don't deserve. Let them teach you and then let them go." Roxanne Hoffner
"I'm stronger because of my hard times, wiser because of my mistakes, happier because of my sad experiences, and smarter because of my moments of confusion."
           
"Some are locked in a life void of love and light, by their own doing. Trapped in a room without locks, hearts closed, mind numb, refusing to see HOPE. The key to your release is within. The peace and love you search for must start with you. Break these chains, and find your true purpose in life. You were born to live, not to simply survive." ~ Rocky Norris (Diana)
   
"All a girl really wants is for one guy to prove to her that they are not all the same.” ~ Marilyn Monroe
   
                
"Sometimes we have to hit rock bottom in order to appreciate what is above it."
                   
"One of the hardest lessons in life is letting go. Whether it is guilt, anger, love, loss, etc. Change is never easy, you fight to hold on, and you fight to let go."
"If they don’t respect, appreciate and value you, then they don’t deserve you." Robert Tewt
"The only disability in life is a bad attitude!" Scott Hamilton :)
"It's always the people that know you the least, that judge you the most. When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself. Don't criticize someone's flaws and mistakes if you can't even see your own. We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it is another to think that yours is the only path."
"Talk to yourself once in a day... Otherwise you may miss a meeting with an excellent person in the world!" Swami Vivekanand from Hinal Savla FB
"An interview with the God: Man: What surprises you most about humankind? God: That they get bored with childhood, they rush to grow up, and then long to be children again. That they lose their health to make money, and then lose their money to restore their health. That by thinking anxiously about the future, they forget the present, such that they live in neither the present nor the future. That they live as if they will never die and die as though they had never lived." from Hinal Savla FB
from Hinal Savla FB post
"Most of obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them." Orison Swett Marden
"Envision your goals and move forward on them a little bit each day." John Thompson March 5 2012
"Often your tasks will be many, and more than you think you can do; Often the road will be rugged and the hills insurmountable, too; But always remember, the hills ahead are never as steep as they seem, and with Faith in your heart start upward and climb 'til you reach your dream; For nothing in life that is worthy is ever too hard to achieve if you have the courage to try it, and you have the faith to believe; For faith is a force that is greater than knowledge or power or skill, and many defeats turn to triumph if you trust in God's wisdom and will; For faith is a mover of mountains!"
Human does not understand own value. Our mind is invaluable. We have magical power within our mind which can turn iron into gold.

It is difficult to conquer mind but we need to control our mind.

When we try to control our mind then only we realize how irregular situation is? How conflicting waves of thoughts are? It is shocking to know how much valuable time is wasted behind useless thoughts which cannot apply!

Our thoughts decide our future.

Good thoughts lead to heaven. Bad thoughts lead to hell. As we sow, so we reap. As we think, we become likewise.

Depending on class of thoughts, human lives high or low life. Our thoughts are responsible for stepping up ladder of success as well as for our downfall! We chose thorn and complain for bleeding. We chose darkness and complain we cannot see anything.

Often we will need to calm wandering thoughts. Whenever mind starts wandering aimless, immediately switch mind into high ideals. The most important need is patience. Haste will not achieve control. Applying patience, slowly thoughts will be controlled successfully. Be gentle with mind. Our mind will resist less with tender treatment.

We need to know our desires, goals, hopes and feelings. Learn to accept TRUTH. Accept our limitations. Examine our faults. Once we admire truth, the light will spread out on our path and divine happiness will be attained with icy peace.

Thinking means creation. The biggest power in the universe is thinking power. What you think you become.

If we think sad things, our mind will sadly imagine what is not going to happen, how horrible future will become? But if we think good things, then same mind will help us become peacefully happy. If we allow mind to be angry, mind will not think what is good or bad and instead act like wild crazy horse not realizing dangerous result.

It is easy to think big. But thinking big with certain aim is very difficult and far away thing. It demands time.

Mind is like iron jail, it will not let us escape out of bad thought which will remain immovable. We will have to struggle hard to get rid of bad thought from our mind. We are responsible for this disaster because we have developed the habit of bad thought which imposes toll on body.

If we do not have an ambition, make one; ambition will provide strength to our thought. Truthfully, ambition gives birth to ideal thought and inspires way to fulfill it. We think strategic plan for it and work hard to achieve it. Keep goal in front of us and we will elevate ourselves to reach high goal. Certainly surrounding affects us and influences our mind. If we keep company with noble and pure heart people, definitely we will cleanse our bad thoughts and purify ourselves.

To be Continue..............................................!

"Something is better than Nothing! but Nothing is better than Nonsense!" Shiva Karnati (Bhailal's Hyderabadi friend)
"It is better to lose one minute in life than to lose life in a minute!" from Shiva Karnati inspired FB Page 05 13 2012
“Those who have lived through difficulties and have seen the dark days of desperation, know that the only way to get through them is by finding the values that are important in life; rediscovering a sense of belonging to a project, a community, a nation; embracing hope; looking ahead; and taking your destiny into your own hands.” Chrysler CEO Sergio Marchionne
"I saw my life as an arc and that it would end, and compared to that nothing mattered." "You're born alone, you're going to die alone! And does anything else really matter? I mean, what is it exactly that you have to lose, Steve? You know? There's nothing!" Steve Jobs ("When the game of life is over, the king, queen and the pawn all go in the same box!")
"Fashion is what seems beautiful now but looks ugly later; art can be ugly at first but it becomes beautiful later." - Steve Jobs
"Steve Jobs (Genius/Visionary) Legacy: Brightest heaven Invention - eight revolutionary industries: 1: Personal Computer 2: Digital Publishing 3: Music 4: Phone 5: Animation Movies 6: Tablet Computer 7: ?? 8: Store Design/Layout

"You are what your deep, driving desire is." "As your desire is, so is your will." "As your will is, so is your deed." "As your deed is, so is your destiny."  -- Brihadaranyaka Upanishad IV.4.5

Dive deep into the mute cravings of your inner self... Seek understanding with your highest intelligence, wisdom, love and vision. - Paramahansa Yogananda

"Life's luck is governed by fate! Destiny dictates thoughts which creates Karma resulting into fortune!  All we do is Karma according to destiny!" -- Bhailal Shah
"Enjoy each moment of your life. Things are never going to remain the same. Don't worry about other persons anymore. They have their own fate as you cannot be God in everyone's life. Live your life nicely. Enjoy the moments of past memories. Everything will be alright." Hemal L Keniya - Gold Coast Brisbane Australia July 25 2009

P.S. Always think, feel, speak "ALL IS WELL" - 3 Idiots Movie

"We must believe in Luck. You never know what kind of Luck next moment brings" ~ Bhailal shah
"Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life." Steve Jobs
"Whether you ride it out or work it out, you can always overcome bad luck." - Anonymous
"Money is not everything. Money can buy doctor but not health!" (But Bhailal still says money is supreme & everything!)
"Every individual(Nargis) has destiny to live through. Do not imprison anyone. Do not cling to anyone. Set Nargis free."
"Conditional Love: I Love You because I Need You! Unconditional Love: I Need You because I Love You!"
"What is Mohabbat / Ishq / Pyar / Prem / Sneh / Love? Falling in Love anew everyday, always with the same person!"
"And it comes from saying no to 1,000 things to make sure we don't get on the wrong track or try to do too much. We're always thinking about new markets we could enter, but it's only by saying no that you can concentrate on the things that are really important." Steve Jobs
"Being the richest man in the cemetery doesn't matter to me. Going to bed at night saying we've done something wonderful, that's what matters to me." Steve Jobs
"Design is not just what it looks like and feels like. Design is how it works. Design is the fundamental soul of a man-made creation that ends up expressing itself in successive outer layers of the product or service. The iMac is not just the color or translucence or the shape of the shell. The essence of the iMac is to be the finest possible consumer computer in which each element plays together." Steve Jobs
"One gets dirty by picking into mud. (Padyo podro dhul lidha vagar nahi jaay.)" Ratibhai Patel
"Cow death is invited by wandering into slaughter house. (Gaay marvani hoy tyare katalkhane jaay. vinash kalhe viparit buddhi.)"
"Without dying cannot go to heaven. (Aap muaa vina swarg maa na jaway.)"
"Unfortunate dog has no home no park! (Dhobi no kutro na gharno na ghaatno.)"
"First was the mouse. The second was the click wheel. And now, we're going to bring multi-touch to the market. And each of these revolutionary interfaces has made possible a revolutionary product - the iMac, the iPod and now the iPhone." Steve Jobs (PC - Apple?)
"Aapelu ne taapelu laambu na pahoche." (Freely acquired things do not last long.) Ratibhai Patel
"It is very easy to share someone's misery but very difficult to share someone's happiness." Anonymous
"Dekhvu nahi ne daazavu nahi. Dekhate raho aur jalte raho."
"You'll see more and more perfection of that - computer as servant. But the next thing is going to be computer as a guide or agent." Steve Jobs
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition." Steve Jobs
"Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it." Steve Jobs
"For the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: 'If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?' And whenever the answer has been 'No' for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something." Steve Jobs
"Whatever happens, happens for good. I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life." Steve Jobs
"I'm sorry, it's true. Having children really changes your view on these things. We're born, we live for a brief instant, and we die. It's been happening for a long time. Technology is not changing it much - if at all." Steve Jobs
"If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on." Steve Jobs
"My favorite things in life does not cost any money. It's really clear that the most precious resource we all have is time. Time is money." Steve Jobs
"No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new." Steve Jobs
"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything - all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important." Steve Jobs
"Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart." Steve Jobs
"Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith." Steve Jobs
"Stay hungry, stay foolish." Steve Jobs
"That's been one of my mantras - focus and simplicity. Simple can be harder than complex: You have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple. But it's worth it in the end because once you get there, you can move mountains." Steve Jobs
"The design of the Mac wasn't what it looked like, although that was part of it. Primarily, it was how it worked. To design something really well, you have to get it. You have to really know what it's all about. It takes a passionate commitment to really thoroughly understand something, chew it up, not just quickly swallow it." Steve Jobs
"Nothing in this world is achieved without hard work, sweat, blood and tears, the sooner we reconcile to this fact the better, the sooner we start to act on it even more better." Amitabh Bachchan - November 7 2010
"Be good to your body and so will be your body to you" ~ Sonakshi Sinha
Ratibhai Patel (Electric Engineer - 69 years old on November 2011) Daily wisdom food to Bhailal Shah

1) Remain happy with everything comes to you

2) Do not expect anything

3) Do not attach too much to anything

4) Do not complain

5) Do not worry about anything

6) Do your duty

7) Keep baggage ready to DIE and start journey to God's chosen destiny (Heaven/Hell/Earth)

"Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world. -- Lucille Ball"
"To gain that which is worth having, it may be necessary to lose everything else." -- Burnadette Devlin
Nobody has things just as s/he would like. Make a success with what material you have. It is a sheer waste of time and soul power to imagine what you would do if things were different. Things are not different. -- Dr. Frank Crane
"I have come to realize that all my trouble with living has come from fear and smallness within me." -- Angela L. Wozniak
"Face Life as you find it--defiantly and unafraid. Waste no energy yearning for the moon. Crush out all sentiment."
"Success seems to be largely a matter of hanging on after others have let go." ~ William Feather
"You only have to do a very few things right in your life so long as you don't do too many things wrong." ~ Warren Buffett
"Don't throw away the old bucket until you know whether the new bucket holds water." -- Swedish Proverb
"Learn the art of patience. Apply discipline to your thoughts when they become anxious over the outcome of a goal. Impatience breeds anxiety, fear, discouragement and failure. Patience creates confidence, decisiveness, and a rational outlook, which eventually leads to success." -- Brian Adams
"Hope is immortal" "Asha Amar Hai" - "One immortal hope amidst million disappointments" "Lakhon nirasha mein ek amar asha"
"Do not wait; the time will never be "just right". Start where you stand, and work with whatever tools you may have at your command, and better tools will be found as you go along." -- Napoleon Hill
"No-One can choose your mountain or tell you when to climb... It is yours alone to challenge at your own pace and time." Patricia  J Hacker-Harber
"Lakhon Irade Bante Hai, Bankar Tut Jate Hai, Ajmer vahi jate hai, Jinhe Khwaja bulate hai (Inshallah)"
"Ila na karna, sikwa na karna, basar ko chahiye har halme, shukre Khuda ada karna!" (Do not feel sad, do not complain, one must thank God in every circumstance!)
"Never lose hope. Hope is a rope that swings you through life."
"Never take the advice of someone who has not had your kind of trouble." -- Sidney J. Harris
"House and businesses can be rebuilt. Lives cannot. (Hurricane Rita)" Texas Governor Rick Perry
"Holding onto anger is like grasping onto a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else. You are the one who gets burned." -- Gautama Buddha
"You must dare to disassociate yourself from those who would delay your journey... Leave, depart, if not physically, then mentally. Go your own way, quietly, softly and venture toward trueness at last." Vernon Howard
"Never cut what you can untie." - Joseph Joubert
"Your time is limited. Don't be trapped by living with the results of other people's life. Don't let the noise of other's opinions destroy your own inner voice. Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition which already know what truly you want to become. Everything else is secondary." -- Steve Jobs
"It is better to have a hen tomorrow than an egg today."
"Bird in a hand is better than two in the bush."
"If you take care of time then time will take care of you." Harkishan Mehta (Chitralekha)
"I cannot go to heaven without me dying first - Aap mua vagar swarge na javaay"
"Live every act fully, as it were your last."
"Love many things, for therein lies the true strength, and whosoever loves much performs much, and can accomplish much, and what is done in love is well done." - Vincent Van Gogh
"Your children are not only your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself. They come through you but not for you. And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts. For they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls. For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow which you cannot face it not even in your dreams. You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you. For life goes not backward nor along with yesterday." - Kahlil Gibran
"Only one royal path to liberate from fear...

Do not remain immersed into fear, but confront fear with full strength and your own inner faith. Fear causes human to slip into depression. One's mind asks oneself overwhelming worrying questions which causes one to dislike oneself more. Sadness emerges more often in communication and eyelids get easily tearful. Sleep becomes futile. Suicidal thoughts occur frequently. Upon experiencing these symptoms, do not feel ashamed to seek help of professional psychiatrist. Accept the fact that as body can become ill, mind can become ill too. Doctor and medicine may provide limited relief, but all these help is like providing only one pillar support to breaking house. First aid must still be provided by you to yourself. You have to understand your mind. You have to recognize fear. If you do all these, the fear will be uprooted from origin and you will become calm and relaxed. Do not worry more to get rid of fear born out of worries. Start prayers as soon as worry starts, then worry will disappear. Depression will automatically evaporate if we live without obligation and sympathy of any one. With strong, determined will power, we must swim out our own ocean.

Mind why you worry, Let Krishna (God) do whatever...

Do not pamper depression but challenge it like master so it will disappear.

"Sometimes acceptance is just as important as striving and struggle: Acceptance of what happened is the first step to overcoming the consequence of any misfortune. Things turn out best for people who make the best of the way things turn out." - William James
"Nobody can hurt me without my permission." - Mahatma Gandhi
"I do believe in living each day like it was my last. That's why I never have any clean clothes, for honestly, who bothers to do laundry on your last day?"
- Danish school kid
"The ideals which have lighted my way, and time after time have given me new courage to face life cheerfully, have been Kindness, Beauty, and Truth..." -- Albert Einstein
"[Sleep is] the golden chain that ties health and our bodies together. - Thomas Dekker
I love looking at the eternal beauty of the feminine because it is leading me towards knowing I am that. I want to know in every fiber of my being that I am that beauty and you are helping me literally see that with your images." - Laurie
"Money will not buy happiness, but it will let you be unhappy in nice places." - Anonymous
"When you hate, the only one that suffers is you because most of the people you hate don't know it and the rest don't care." Medgar Evans
"Everything you do should be done with peace. That is the best medicine for your body, mind and soul. It is the most wonderful way to live." - Paramahansa Yogananda
"We are all designed for a specific purpose; we all have something for which each of us and each of us alone is responsible." - Naomi Stephan
"Bhensh aagar Bhagwat! (It is impossible to defeat an ignorant man in argument. It is sheer waste of time and mind.) - William Gibbs McAdoo
"A message for the New Year from Sri Daya Mata: A divine momentum enlivens our hope and strengthens our conviction that it is possible for us to attain our worthy goals if we pursue them with determination, in loving attunement with the Divine. We see in the examples of great individuals—those who have produced inspired works, the saints who have realized God—how their efforts bore fruit through their soulful dedication, their unceasing perseverance, despite setbacks and obstacles. Let us take to heart the testimony of their lives:  There is nothing we cannot achieve if we so believe, if we faithfully, tirelessly, joyously put forth our positive thoughts and actions toward that end. Whatever be your endeavor, include resolutions for self-improvement. Write down your determinations, and place reminders where you will see them often to recharge your resolve. Just keep on steadfastly! Reinforce your will by association with persons who strengthen you in what you are striving toward. Look to those who are kind, forgiving, and unselfish if you wish to develop those qualities—or emulate those who exude courage and faith if that is your need. We in turn become an uplifting influence on others as we increasingly express the God-love, joy, creativity, and wisdom of our souls."
"Determination is the persistence necessary to fulfill your ambitions. Commitment is the belief that motivates your persistence."
"The proper function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days in trying to prolong them. I shall use my time." - Jack London
"Failure to prepare is preparing to fail." - Mike Murdock
"It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about." - Dale Carnegie
"What we do today, right now, will have an accumulated effect on all our tomorrows."
- Alexandra Stoddard
"You are only as strong as your purpose, therefore let us choose reasons to act that are big, bold, righteous and eternal." - Barry Munro
"We must never judge things prematurely. What happens to be weakness, God/Goddess can transform into greatness... what seems to be loss, God/Goddess can turn into gain... what looks like failure, God/Goddess can turn into victory... The hard thing we are going through is not the final chapter."
"Do Not Fear: God/Goddess will never leave us empty. If something is taken away, God/Goddess will replace it with something better. If God/Goddess denies our request in a certain area, it is because God/Goddess wishes to give you what is best. If God/Goddess asks you to put something down, it is so we can pick up something greater. God/Goddess is not great denier, but the great giver.
"As we wait on God/Goddess: God/Goddess makes all things beautiful. Put our faith in God/Goddess, not in a timetable. Wait on God/Goddess and wait for God/Goddess. When God/Goddess is ready, we will be ready. God/Goddess will put everything together... see to every detail... arrange every circumstance... change every heart... and order every step to bring to pass what God/Goddess has planned for us."
"Our Life is a Blessing: The mind of God/Goddess is different than the thoughts of human. As we follow God/Goddess, we discover that we lose to gain... surrender to win... die to live... give to receive... scatter to reap. In weakness we are made strong... in humility we are lifted up... in emptiness we are made full!"
"It is not enough to have a good mind. The main thing is to use it well." - Rene Descartes
"It is better to be defeated on principle than to win on lies." - Arthur Calwell
"Happiness is not achieved by the conscious pursuit of happiness; it is generally the by-product of other activities." -- Aldous Huxley
"Instead of thousand useless words, a word which brings peace is invaluable."
"Don't Be Irreplaceable, if you can't be replaced, you can't be promoted."
"If I keep the weakness of others in my mind, they soon become a part of me."
"When things reach their absolute worst, remember: When it is dark enough, one can see the stars." Charles A Beard
"Let the past drift away with the water." - Japanese proverb
"A strong positive mental attitude will create more miracles than any wonder drug." -- Patricia Neal

"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will." - Mahatma Gandhi

"Nothing is good or bad, but thinking makes it so." - Shakespeare

"As long as you are going to think anyway, think BIG." - Donald Trump

" Woman/Man is only miserable so far as s/he thinks her/himself so." Jacopo Sannazaro

"Pray as if everything depended on God, and work as if everything depended on you." - Cardinal Francis J. Spellman
"Those who dare to fail miserably can achieve greatly." - Robert F. Kennedy
"One kind word can warm three winter months." - Japanese Proverb

"Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless."
- Mother Teresa

"Better to light a candle than to curse the darkness." - Chinese proverb
"Awaken the innate fortitude of the mind by affirming, "No matter what experience come, they cannot touch me. I am always happy." - Paramahansa Yogananda
"Plenty of people miss their share of happiness. Not because they never found it, but because they didn't stop to enjoy it." - William Feather
"Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul."
"Mentally put yourself in the position of others, and then with the utmost kindness you will be able to understand and help them. There is no greater joy. - Paramahansa Yogananda
"Make an effort to uplift yourself; do not degrade yourself, for one's own self is one's friend and one's own self is one's enemy."
"I am prepared to die, but there is no cause for which I am prepared to kill." - Mahatma Gandhi (Bhailal prepare yourself to suffer, let love harm you but do not harm your love)

"Peace cannot be achieved through violence, it can only be attained through understanding." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

"However much I may sympathize with and admire worthy motives, I am an uncompromising opponent of violent methods even to serve the noblest of causes." - Mahatma Gandhi

"The happiness of one's own heart alone cannot satisfy the soul; one must try to include, as necessary to one's own happiness, the happiness of others. - Paramahansa Yogananda
"The best way to live is to take life as a cosmic game, with its inevitable contrasts of defeat and victory. Enjoy the challenges as you would in a sport, no matter whether at the moment you are victorious or vanquished." - Paramahansa Yogananda
"The cobra will bite you whether you call it Cobra or Mr. Cobra." - Indian Proverb
"Problems are the price you pay for progress." - Branch Rickey
"By asking for the impossible we obtain the best possible." - Italian Proverb
"Anxiety is the interest paid on trouble before it is due." - William Inge
"See the forest and not a tree!"
"Sometimes the journey of a single step starts with a thousand miles in the opposite direction."
"At present, how can you see the future, if you live in the past?"
"The ultimate measure of a s/he is not where s/he stands in moments of comfort, but where s/he stands at times of challenge and controversy." - Martin Luther King

"The true indicator of the strength of a person is not whether the glass is seen as half full or half empty. It is what takes place if that glass is "spilled" as SFIO's has been. Do they cry and scream Oh why? or Why me? Or do they just pour another one and choose to continue forward? I choose to just pour another one!"

SFIO MB DADX4

"A HUNDRED YEARS FROM NOW IT WILL NOT MATTER WHAT MY BANK ACCOUNT WAS, THE SORT OF HOUSE I LIVED IN, OR THE KIND OF CAR I DROVE...BUT THE WORLD MAY BE DIFFERENT BECAUSE I WAS IMPORTANT IN THE LIFE OF A CHILD by contributing to the elimination of life hazardous tobacco cigarette!"

"Life has a bright side and dark side, for the world of relativity is composed of light and shadows....Look only for good in everything, that you absorb the quality of beauty." - Paramahansa Yogananda
"In times like these, it helps to recall that there have always been times like these." - Paul Harvey
"[Time is] the most valuable thing s/he can spend."  - Theophrastus
"Remember! Things in life will not always run smoothly. Sometimes we will be rising toward the heights - then all will seem to reverse itself and start downward." - Endicott Peabody
"Lakho irade banate hai, bankar tut jate hai, Ajmer vahi jate hai, jinhe khwaja bulate hai!"
"Anger at lies lasts forever. Anger at truth can't last." - Greg Evans
"No one can build his security upon the nobleness of another person." - Willa Cather
"A human may well bring a horse to the water but cannot make horse drink." - John Heywood
"Sometimes acceptance is just as important as striving and struggle. Things turn out best for people who makes the best of the way things turn out."
"The best way to win an argument is to begin by being right." - Jill  Ruckleshaus
"Expect people to be better than they are; it helps them to become better. But don't be disappointed when they are not; it helps them to keep trying." Merry Browne
"I have always found that mercy bears richer fruits than strict justice." - Abraham Lincoln
"Nobody realizes that some people expend tremendous energy merely to be normal." - Albert Camus
"Handle them carefully, for words have more power than atom bombs." - Pearl Strachan
God, grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference." - Saint Francis of Assisi, 1182 - 1226
"If you want help, help others. If you want trust, trust others. If you want love, give it away. If you want friends, be one. If you want a great team, be a great teammate. That's how it works." - Dan Zadra
"If you take your eyes off your goals, all you see is obstacles."
"Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them." - Orison Swett Marden
"Being defeated is often a temporary condition. Giving up is what makes it permanent." - Marilyn vos Savant

This thing that we call "failure" is not falling down, but the staying down." - Mary Pickford

"Failure is only the opportunity to begin again more intelligently." - Henry Ford

"Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create you own life and then go out and live it."
"Until you die, everything is life, so make the best of it." - Vonnegut, Breakfast of Champions
"If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything."  - Mark Twain
"Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that."  - Martin Luther King, Jr.
"You will never find time for anything. If you want time you must make it." - Charles Buxton
"If I am impatient to experience the results of my efforts, it is like trying to eat unripe fruit."
"Your self-confidence increases when you know you are living your life according to your highest values." - Brian Tracy
"Trying to save someone from their own stupidity is like trying to teach a pig how to dance: it wastes your time, and annoys the pig." - Robert Heinlein
"Hope for a miracle. But don't depend on one." - the Talmud

"Hope for the best. But prepare for the worst."

"If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop digging." - Will Rogers
"Women are creatures meant to be loved, not to be understood." - Oscar Wilde
"Real power and authority is not power and authority over others, but over the self."
"Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve. He who is fixed to a star does not change his mind." - Leonardo da Vinci
"Wisdom is knowledge with understanding and perspective." - Eolake Stobblehouse
"Happiness is lost when any thought of envy or hatred creeps in. Thoughts of love and good wishes cure sorrow."
"We all have to excel at one of two things. Either we become good at planting in the spring, or we learn how to beg in the fall." - Jim Rohn
"Often we have no time for our friends but all the time in the world for our enemies." - Leon Uris
"Time is the coin of your life. It is the only coin you have, and only you can determine how it will be spent. Be careful lest you let other people spend it for you." - Carl Sandburg
"There is a difference between knowing the path and walking the path." - The Matrix
"We do not have to improve ourselves, we just have to let go of what blocks our heart." - Jack Kornfield
"Why try to prove yourself? Let others learn sense through your innocence."
"Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way."
"And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential, strength, will power or heart."
"However many holy words you read, however many you speak, what good will they do you If you do not act on upon them?" - Buddha
"Even if you are a minority of one, the truth is still the truth." - Mahatma Gandhi
"Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless."
"Truth never damages a cause that is just." - Mahatma Gandhi
"In matters of conscience, the law of the majority has no place." - Mahatma Gandhi
"The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you experience can create whom you are, and the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones. If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart."
"The habit of looking on the best side of every event is worth more than a thousand pounds a year." Samuel Johnson
"Let no one charge me with ever having abused or encouraged weakness or surrendered on matters of principle. But I have said, as I say again, that every trifle must not be dignified into a principle." - Mahatma Gandhi
"If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly can, for you may never experience it again."
Last modified: 2009-11-27